tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2989471062521150993.post5401187247950807819..comments2022-10-25T00:56:23.833-07:00Comments on The Pastor's Closeted Son: In Hiding?Seanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04182765542079878252noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2989471062521150993.post-22112143232616356902012-03-23T02:32:21.962-07:002012-03-23T02:32:21.962-07:00Just found your blog, Sean. We have very similar s...Just found your blog, Sean. We have very similar stories. I've been married for 25 years to a wonderful woman who knows and accepts me for who I am. The key has been honesty and fidelity, and it sounds like you're on the right track. Hopefully you and Karen will find ways to talk about this in every day conversation, but take that at her speed. I agree with Buddy, the feelings seem more intense the older I get. The best thing we ever did, though was to visit a marriage counselor. We didn't look for a christian counselor, but rather one who specialized in our kind of marriage. She didn't have a mission to fix me, she wanted to help both of us learn to communicate and express ourselves safely. I'm looking forward to seeing how things go for you!Keithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14546962646736106240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2989471062521150993.post-61990334047818303232012-02-23T19:08:35.709-08:002012-02-23T19:08:35.709-08:00Yeah Buddy, I worry about all that. My plan is to ...Yeah Buddy, I worry about all that. My plan is to burn that bridge when I get there. Lol. Seanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04182765542079878252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2989471062521150993.post-80529051415562420152012-02-22T22:30:21.555-08:002012-02-22T22:30:21.555-08:00I am quite sure that this will be an on-going chal...I am quite sure that this will be an on-going challenge. One's sexuality evolves and changes as we age. And this is just my opinion, but for bi married guys, I think their attraction to men gets stronger as they move from their mid 30s to their 50s.Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2989471062521150993.post-80580480534689097192012-02-21T13:57:01.749-08:002012-02-21T13:57:01.749-08:00Thanks Cameron. I'm just thinking out loud rea...Thanks Cameron. I'm just thinking out loud really. Navel-gazer to the extreme! LolSeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04182765542079878252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2989471062521150993.post-69847472442019574372012-02-21T12:34:58.106-08:002012-02-21T12:34:58.106-08:00You have to figure out what works for you and that...You have to figure out what works for you and that will take time.<br /><br />I'd discourage you from thinking in terms of masks. Masks are for hiding and hiding causes guilt and anxiety.<br /><br />Straight men don't usually discuss how much porn they watch with their wives. Is their discretion a mask?<br /><br />You are who you are. You've been honest with your wife. You have nothing of consequence to feel bad about, so, give yourself a break!TwoLiveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801244463128618355noreply@blogger.com